I Don't Know Who Else To Go To

James' girlfriend doesn't like me. She hates a lot of people for no reason and she's definately treating him like a puppet and he doesn't even realize it. I do have a group of friends that have backed me up before in my fight with James in September. I have 6 great friends I know will have my back anytime and they proved that at that fight.

James made a rule that if anyone fell to let em get back up. My friends stick to rules. He tried takin me down and hittin me and my friend knocked him out for it.

Basically my ex and James are instigators with this whole thing. She says I'm a pushover b**ch and the friends I do have talk bad about me behind my back. I might get a restraining order on her. I talked with our school cop today and he said I could since we had a 7 month relationship. I also hope she says the wrong thing becuase I would not think twice about hitting her with the same thing as Sam.

I told them before I would not hesitate to get cops involved and I'm not. I had all my friends skip to come with me at 1st lunch (we have 3 lunches) and I had the school cop watching out for me

[Coasterkidmwm]

School authorities are NEVER the solution to anything. If you have a problem, go straight the police. Eliminates the dumb middleman.

Pack a 9 mm.

Just kidding.

Go to the police.

[Coasterkidmwm]

Also since when is New Jersey a bad area? Like all states and cities have a bad area but I've never heard of it being notoriously bad. Was this another lie invented by rap music?

Guns will just get you arrested. I aggree with coasterkidmwm go straight to the police. You can file charges and if they touch you then you can have assult charges and if im correct you can get a couple years for that. It happened to me last year and it was not fun. It causes post tramitc stress. But one thing that i did was when one of the kids woulden't leave me alone i punched him in the face and he left me alone. If you play your cards right you can screw there entire lives. Post charges or wait till they hit you then charge them. Talk to an attorney and check out your options. I'm not 100 percent sure but once they hit you you may be able to sue them. In addition to them getting arrested, losing money (if you can sue) and possably explostion(sp?, they will never get there diploma, hence no college, and no good job, screwing them for life.[:D]. Thats if they get jail and/or expelled. And maybe im also not sure on this but see if you can sue them right now, charge, trama. They have tramatized you which can leave a life lasting scar. Sue for emotional damages. All of them too. But chack with an attorney for options. Thats just me.

Don't listen to Jimmy?

[Oscar]

yeah don't listen to him, pack the 9mm [:)]

Originally posted by Coasterkidmwm

Also since when is New Jersey a bad area? Like all states and cities have a bad area but I've never heard of it being notoriously bad. Was this another lie invented by rap music?

Was a joke matt. ESTL and DET was dead on though, don't want to ask directions in those towns. NJ just gets a bad rep b/c it sucks really bad compared to all of its counterparts. Philly, DC, NYC, etc.

James' girlfriend doesn't like me. She hates a lot of people for no reason and she's definately treating him like a puppet and he doesn't even realize it. I do have a group of friends that have backed me up before in my fight with James in September. I have 6 great friends I know will have my back anytime and they proved that at that fight.

James made a rule that if anyone fell to let em get back up. My friends stick to rules. He tried takin me down and hittin me and my friend knocked him out for it.

Basically my ex and James are instigators with this whole thing. She says I'm a pushover b**ch and the friends I do have talk bad about me behind my back. I might get a restraining order on her. I talked with our school cop today and he said I could since we had a 7 month relationship. I also hope she says the wrong thing becuase I would not think twice about hitting her with the same thing as Sam.

I told them before I would not hesitate to get cops involved and I'm not. I had all my friends skip to come with me at 1st lunch (we have 3 lunches) and I had the school cop watching out for me

Your ex sounds like a bitch. She likes drama, and shes getting it. Don't worry, in a couple years she'll be upset that she doesn't have any true friends, and will spend all of her years at bars looking for pick ups, and will probably have a boob job or some sort of cosmetic surgery.

99.9% of the time things like this work themselves out so where the asshole turns out to be that person, and the good people get rewarded later.

I've never really seen or experienced really bad bullying, so ignore this if you think I don't know what I'm talking about, but it seems like the best thing to do is just try to ignore the whole thing. If you stop giving these kids the reactions they're looking for they might stop, it probably just edges them on when they find out you've been talking to the administration or the school cop. Just ignore them, hang out with your new friends, and maybe the whole thing will blow over if you give it enough time.

^ or just say "stop"...

[Oscar]

I say comfront them and kick as much as as you can before getting your ass kicked [:)] I say lots of stuff hmmmmm hot night....

Confront whoever about it.

I was blackmailed at school once and at first I ignored them then sent their messages to the principle, kind of like you're doing, and then after a few days I confronted them.

They flipped a shiz because they realized I had balls and stopped. And when you confront them, drop hints that you got them cornered and the administration (and I guess police) are on your side.

If they don't stop after that, or if they're too irrational and keep going on bothering you anyway, you need to go arm and hammer to the principal/headmaster and politely demand for something to be done.

my school sucks like this because if u hit 'em in the chest you can see it hurt but they laugh, it happened to me only once so i hit him again and he walked off pretty much in tears lol, also in middle school there was a kid who said something about my mum(she's dead btw) so i turned round and punched him in the chest, he got angry and hit me in the face, i walked off and didn't realise until someone told me! everyone liked me after that and he got suspended[8D]