Over Analyzing- Do you notice it?

Over analyzing has started to drive me nuts, and one of the areas I see it happening most is with bullying.

Do you HONESTLY think that these kids are jealous of the kid they hurt? Do you truly believe that they don't fit in with a group and they think that hurting others makes them cool? Do you really think they burt others because of self insecurity?

It's a bunch of BS. Kids bully eachother because they LIKE to. There's no jealousy, there's no nothing, it's friggen kids being kids, yes it's a terrible thing and it SHOULD be stopped, but it's never going to happen if you keep thinking too much into it. Most kids don't think about bullying, they just do it... They either enjoy it or they just kind of do what everyone else does.

Another place I notice it is when 2 people break up.

3 Things:

X lost the spark in the relationship. X cheated on me because they felt insecure with themselves and needed change.
[Truth? X wanted to get layed by someone that wasn't you.]

X has changed since we started dating. I think X is starting to crawl into their shell, they're becoming depressed, but it's not Y's fault, X is just feeling insecure about things, if Y is happy around him things will change.
[Truth? You drive X nuts.]

X and Y break up, then friend, Z, tells X that the way to make Y feel the worst about breaking up with them is to look happy in front of Y because Y is expecting X to be sad and upset about it.
[Truth? If Y sees X happy, they don't pay attention to it and it doesn't offend then whatsoever.]

Maybe I'm alone in seeing this, but it's starting to drive me nuts. People think their ways into a sort of fake comfort zone. They make excuses to feel better, or make up reasons that events happen that makes it not their fault.

I hope I don't sound like a bumbling idiot [As usual?]

Peace.

[hyyyper]

I agree, people don't have enough at a simple answer, they want everything to be complicated. If children are hard to raise, people say they have mental issues and stuff.

You are over analyzing the people that analyze things.

Originally posted by CalawayPark

X lost the spark in the relationship. X cheated on me because they felt insecure with themselves and needed change.
[Truth? X wanted to get layed by someone that wasn't you.]

X has changed since we started dating. I think X is starting to crawl into their shell, they're becoming depressed, but it's not Y's fault, X is just feeling insecure about things, if Y is happy around him things will change.
[Truth? You drive X nuts.]

X and Y break up, then friend, Z, tells X that the way to make Y feel the worst about breaking up with them is to look happy in front of Y because Y is expecting X to be sad and upset about it.
[Truth? If Y sees X happy, they don't pay attention to it and it doesn't offend then whatsoever.]

z = 1/2(x^2 + ln(5x-3y^2))-1/2 d/dx(x^2 + ln(5x ????????? 3y^2))
= 1/2(x^2 + ln(5x-3y^2))-1/2 (2x + 5/(5x ????????? 3y^2))

you see becuase d/dx x^2
=2x
and d/dx ln(5x ????????? 3y^2))
=5/(5x ????????? 3y^2))

Understand?

I gotta agree with you 100%. I've recently been bullied due to a girlfriend I broke up with about 2 months ago. She's managed to get 4 of my friends to hate me and even had their 1 friend threaten me. I took it to the principal and he set up assault charges and the kid's in juvie cuz he was still on probation [:p]

Further proof that girls suck.

[Oscar]

Originally posted by Canadmos

Further proof that girls suck.

you got tied to one for the next 18 years Women are good is you know how to deal with them [:)] I need to start a school lol

Originally posted by WeeWeeSlap

Women are good is you know how to deal with them [:)] I need to start a school lol

We don't need lessons from a pimp

Yes we do.

Calaway, you are the only person I see overanalyzing anything. You say "Kids having jelousy is bull****, they just make fun of people because its fun". Well sure some kids think its fun, and most probably think its fun on the surface. But there is a starting point for everything, its not natural to just want to be mean, it all comes from some sort of insecurity, they want to feel better than somebody, so they make fun of them. Its the truth.

And about the relationship thing- Every relationship is different, maybe you and your boyfriends have had some of those troubles and now you are grouping all troubles in all relationships to be those 3 things... dont be so closed-minded... and emo

Most people set their expetations too high only to find they don't meet what they thought a relationship would be thus leading to the increase in break ups and divorces.

Amen to Canadmos and Homie.

Social anxiety - do you know it?

(I don't mean to be sassy/mean, the title just made me laugh.)

Originally posted by Canadmos

Further proof that girls suck.

Yes, girls indeed do suck...[:)]

Yeah I agree with a lot of what you say, but I think there is usually a stimulus to bullying.

Originally posted by dj-dj

Originally posted by CalawayPark

X lost the spark in the relationship. X cheated on me because they felt insecure with themselves and needed change.
[Truth? X wanted to get layed by someone that wasn't you.]

X has changed since we started dating. I think X is starting to crawl into their shell, they're becoming depressed, but it's not Y's fault, X is just feeling insecure about things, if Y is happy around him things will change.
[Truth? You drive X nuts.]

X and Y break up, then friend, Z, tells X that the way to make Y feel the worst about breaking up with them is to look happy in front of Y because Y is expecting X to be sad and upset about it.
[Truth? If Y sees X happy, they don't pay attention to it and it doesn't offend then whatsoever.]

z = 1/2(x^2 + ln(5x-3y^2))-1/2 d/dx(x^2 + ln(5x ????????? 3y^2))
= 1/2(x^2 + ln(5x-3y^2))-1/2 (2x + 5/(5x ????????? 3y^2))

you see becuase d/dx x^2
=2x
and d/dx ln(5x ????????? 3y^2))
=5/(5x ????????? 3y^2))

Understand?

Precicely what I was thinking.

Originally posted by CalawayPark


X lost the spark in the relationship. X cheated on me because they felt insecure with themselves and needed change.
[Truth? X wanted to get layed by someone that wasn't you.]

X has changed since we started dating. I think X is starting to crawl into their shell, they're becoming depressed, but it's not Y's fault, X is just feeling insecure about things, if Y is happy around him things will change.
[Truth? You drive X nuts.]

X and Y break up, then friend, Z, tells X that the way to make Y feel the worst about breaking up with them is to look happy in front of Y because Y is expecting X to be sad and upset about it.
[Truth? If Y sees X happy, they don't pay attention to it and it doesn't offend then whatsoever.]

I'm sorry, what? For something who's being driven nuts from overanalyzing you sure overdid that one. It would be easier for people like me if you used real names...

[Coasterkidmwm]

Originally posted by DXMemberJackDX
I took it to the principal and he set up assault charges and the kid's in juvie cuz he was still on probation [:p]

You're asking to get at the very least and nicest example robbed when he gets out of juvie...

Yeah, revenge is a bitch.

Originally posted by GerstlCrazy

Originally posted by CalawayPark


X lost the spark in the relationship. X cheated on me because they felt insecure with themselves and needed change.
[Truth? X wanted to get layed by someone that wasn't you.]

X has changed since we started dating. I think X is starting to crawl into their shell, they're becoming depressed, but it's not Y's fault, X is just feeling insecure about things, if Y is happy around him things will change.
[Truth? You drive X nuts.]

X and Y break up, then friend, Z, tells X that the way to make Y feel the worst about breaking up with them is to look happy in front of Y because Y is expecting X to be sad and upset about it.
[Truth? If Y sees X happy, they don't pay attention to it and it doesn't offend then whatsoever.]

I'm sorry, what? For something who's being driven nuts from overanalyzing you sure overdid that one. It would be easier for people like me if you used real names...

Gah, I'm sorry about this rant guys, I just noticed something and decided to see if I was alone in that. If I confused you I'm very sorry.

With the 'X, Y and Z' thing, I did that so I wasn't offending a particular gender. I knew it was going to be confusing but I didn't want to make myself sound anti woman or anti man.

Sorry about the confusion.
And me over analyzing those who over analyze.

[Coasterkidmwm]

When are you gonna learn how to quote someone properly and not have tiny assed letters?

Originally posted by Coasterkidmwm

When are you gonna learn how to quote someone properly and not have tiny assed letters?

Happy?

You expect me to chuffing size my quote for you? Get glasses or contacts...

[Oscar]

this topic has gone way overboard emo. NO EMOS!