Ask A Gay Man

I have nothing against boys liking boys, but when they act like a ditz is when it pisses me off.

Originally posted by Z00Z3R

^I was literally about to say the same thing.

This whole really feminine gay thing is annoying. I'm gay, and I want to date a boy not a girl. Ugh.

He sould go and date himself, that would come as close to the equivalent as possible of being gay.

I just think he needed to be more "fabulous".

okay, firstly the word "fag" is not appropriate in any situation. secondly, not all gay people like pink or act like that, thirdly, i'm sure we all have more serious concerns than what color GerstlCrazy is posting in. personally, i hate pink but who cares. [:)]


edit: oh wow, there's a whole second page of posts lol, didn't see that the first time around! i'm gay too and i agree, i want to date a GUY. not a ditzy girly- type guy. if that's how you act then it's none of my business but i just find it really really annoying.

[Kev]

Originally posted by coaster992001

okay, firstly the word "fag" is not appropriate in any situation. secondly, not all gay people like pink or act like that, thirdly, i'm sure we all have more serious concerns than what color GerstlCrazy is posting in. personally, i hate pink but who cares. [:)]


edit: oh wow, there's a whole second page of posts lol, didn't see that the first time around! i'm gay too and i agree, i want to date a GUY. not a ditzy girly- type guy. if that's how you act then it's none of my business but i just find it really really annoying.

I personally don't see a problem with the 'F' word when it adequately describes a person. The guy in the video was playing the stereotypical 'fag' type, so I think it was fitting. Being gay myself, I wouldn't be offended if the word was used on me... so long as it isn't accompanied with a tire iron coming in contact with my skull. That's just me though...words are just words. I think that too many people these days are a little too sensitive about unimportant things. [:)]

Yea and I know a gay couple who uses that word for each other. Just like alot of black people throw the N word around for each other. You cant have a double standard and say "we can use it, but you cant". I personally dont use either word - I have more respect than that, but honestly, just dont pull a double standard and be a hypocrite. I have more respect for people who avoid that than who try to act like they have a right and others dont.

Havent watched view, probably wont.

I leave for 5 days and GerstCrazy turns gay???

[coolbeans326]

^ I think he came out in the "sexual orientation" thread


I saw this awhile ago. It was a good laugh.

I think that's how he acts for the videos, not in real life..but that's just me.

I don't know about that.

[jayman]

thats not really the gay dude, that's his stuntman.

[Kev]

Originally posted by haydawg149

I think that's how he acts for the videos, not in real life..but that's just me.

You may be right... although I will say that the act seems a little too convincing. I would guess that he has a little more sugar in his britches than your average run of the mill gay man... prolly from all of those pink cupcakes that he's been eating. Seriously though, with a lot of gay men, it is an act. There's many guys out there that, for whatever reason, feel the need to 'act' gay in public... even though they act completely average when in a smaller crowd. Kind of odd... similar to how so many lesbians have exactly the same haircut. Maybe it is just their way of letting the world know who they are... as if the world really cares.

This was around before ask a Ninja and the other you mentioned, and I've been a subscriber to WilliamSledd forever, his website is one of my bookmarks.

Um.... I'm gay and I go to a church with about 600 members, almost all of which are gay, and about half of my friends are gay, and even my MOM is gay.

I seriously doubt that the girlie-boy baking pink cupcakes is gay. If he is, he needs to look at his own video and ask himself why he's more of a stereotype than he is a real person. It just HAS to be an act.

I know some really, REALLY nelly guys, but none of them are as offensively stereotypical as this guy. I think he's faking.

[jayman]

i'm straight, so i'm probabaly not the one to bring this up, but i've noticed that the more "flamey" a gay dude is the less likely he is to be really gay, and more likely to be someone who is either confused about his orientation and thinks he has to go out of his way to "prove" it, or someone who's just NOT really gay but thinks they are.. and sometimes people are just like that.
i agree that he's probabally faking. none of the gay dudes i know act like this unless they're trying really hard to bug a redneck, or just clowning around for the fun of it.
however THIS video features a real gay guy, and it's hillarious! (warning.. not for the homophobic.. you might feel guilty)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fbGkxcY7YFU

I love that video! Hahahaha! So classy, so classy.

"You wanna do it in my butt? In my butt?"
"Let's do it in the butt. OK."

[Kev]

Originally posted by jayman

however THIS video features a real gay guy, and it's hillarious! (warning.. not for the homophobic.. you might feel guilty)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fbGkxcY7YFU

Now THAT'S gay. From my experience, most gay men are typically more interested in butts than they are cupcakes or fashion.

i'd go for the cupcakes personally.