Sauron:
"Nice ad hominem."
That was not an ad hominem. That was me telling Oscar that I think he should have been ashamed of himself. In other words, that his actions were sufficient to be ashamed over.
"Based on what evidence? Your personal opinion? You know nothing about data analysis and trends yet tote it like you're a seasoned scientist."
I have seen an increasing number of "premium only features" which are standard issue on most sites, and an increasing number of advertising posts. I in no way claimed to be a statistician.
"How are you being treated as a plebeian? You've cited no logical precedents for this claim, so once again it's just your angry self voicing your opinion as a representation of the whole."
Good point. That bit was just me pointlessly venting.
"That first sentence is nothing new, and you make it sound like Oscar should be grateful for your patronage."
But of course he shouldn't be. After all, members who don't help pay the site's bills are of no value whatsoever.
"In the second sentence you confuse running a business with cockiness as if they are interchangeable."
Okay, I'm a little confused. One set of people is arguing that I should be more grateful for Oscar running this site out of the goodness of his heart. You are treating it as a business. Which am I supposed to believe? I also did not confuse running a business with being cocky. A businessman is cocky if he believes that most people will choose to pay for his service when there is a free service of equal quality.
"Finally, do you even know the meaning of the word extortion? Evidently, you don't because the existence of premium accounts in no way extorts the community."
You've got me there. I know the meaning of the word extortion, but the responses to this thread have made it clear that I am terrible at using hyperbole, as I end up using words that are far too extreme even in exaggeration.
"I didn't realize that you were an expert on statistical analysis...again. I guess making claims without sufficient supporting evidence is the "hip" thing these days."
You mention me putting words in others' mouths, but here you put words in mine. My logic was: People would rather not pay for a service if there is a free alternative of similar quality. This is not expert statistical analysis, this is common sense.
"Here you make the classic correlation-causation fallacy. In no way does Gerstlcrazy's language imply that he is entitled to it for $30/month."
I did not say that he was entitled to curse for $30 a month. I will show the relevant part of his post:
"*Shut the hell up and appreciate this site for what Oscar does allow, rather than what he doesn't. Like all my swearing for instance... =P"
The only example he cited for things allowed on this site, and should be appreciated, was getting to swear. I was pointing out that allowing swearing carries little weight in judging the quality of the site, especially as it was being misused. I fail to see where there was a correlation/causation fallacy. I was originally a bit intimidated by your apparent command of debating technique, but reading more closely, it seems like you're accusing me of logical fallacies that I have not committed.
"Your paragraph before that and the one cited here do nothing to help your case. I can regurgitate countless examples of businesses charging for one thing while competitors do not, but you have to realize that every business just can't change overnight. Additionally, I'd like to know what businesses you have owned and what products or services you offered that people bought. I'm inclined to say that you never owned a business because you clearly know nothing about running one by what you've said here."
Businesses almost always charge for services. That is true. However, I have always been under the impression that a hobby/interest group based internet forum is a social gathering where people get together online and talk about their common interest, and not a business. If a book shop owner runs his library like a book club, he will go out of business. If a book club president runs his club like a bookstore, he will have no members, and become Forever Alone Guy.
"In what way did Mikey imply that he is morally superior due to his age bracket? You're putting words in his mouth and once again voicing your angry opinion as a false representation of the whole. The fact of the matter is that people ages 13-19 are financially and socially sheltered. Even if you have a part-time job, you're paying for a fraction of total living expenses. A teenager typically has car insurance, gas, clothing, and some food as their "living expenses". Somebody like Mikey and I who are out of school and working like real adults have rent/mortgage, car insurance, gas, all food, all clothing, internet, TV, phone bill, electricity, water, home owner/renter insurance, and anything else to take care of ourselves and families.
We are crippled by our user base, which is formed primary of users aged 13-19. An age range which makes it incredibly difficult to build a community upon because they do not yet have a firm understanding of what a community is
Again. "You're too young to know what a community is." Knowing what a community is has nothing to do with being self-sufficient. He was accusing an age group of not knowing the meaning of community, which definitely has moral implications, just the same as "not knowing what responsibility is".
"To add insult to injury, you resort to pathetic ad hominems against various members of the site."
This is the second time you have falsely accused me of ad hominem arguments. I was using various (AKA 2) members of the site as examples of how this is not the greatest community on the internet. If I had been responding to CKWMWM by calling him a douchebag, that would have been an ad hominem fallacy. I'm starting to think your accusations of me being uninformed are slightly hypocritical.
"That's why you using the private messaging system. It lets you save face and still gets your questions answered."
Would you like to know why I don't generally use the PM system? When arguing with staff, I am at a disadvantage, because my opponent has the ability to delete/lock threads and take punitive action against users. If I got in a PM fight with an admin who had an itchy trigger finger on the ban-cannon, the admin could afterward tell forum members who asked what happened "don't discuss banned members" or just tell his/her own side of the argument. On the other hand, a forum thread is out in the open.
Basically, I post where the whole community can see because if I lose face, I was probably asking for it, but I turn out to be in the right, and the staff do something stupid, they can't cover it up. A large number of members will see the stupid post, and the staff will look very silly. If I am banned justly, then banned members get a bad rep anyway, and I was probably asking for it. On the other hand, if I am banned unjustly, a shitstorm will likely emerge. If site staff attempt to cover up their error by deleting posts or the whole thread, they will look extremely stupid, and a revolt may occur.
Therefore, if I lose an argument either way, I lose, and the staff win. However, if I win an argument, than in PMs I will lose and the staff win, but in a thread the staff will lose and I will win.
If my argument is with another member, I may use PMs, but I still prefer a thread, because with PMs both parties will report their own side of the story, but a thread is on public record. Any questions?
"Omnigeek, with your rebuttal being neither civil nor informed, it is best that you leave this community. You clamored for civility, and yet your words in each of your posts have shown complete hypocrisy. Furthermore, if you wished to redress grievances with the site staff, you should have used PM's. You clearly failed to yield to reason from the other members, and thus you have shown unwillingness to listen to opinions that dissent against yours.
Let's take a look at your hypocritical desire for a civil thread and your uninformed opinions:"
All right, I'll just admit, my initial post was completely idiotic, and I was way out of line. However, I have yielded, and admitted myself in the wrong on most of the original post. The fact remains, however: most online communities do not charge for basic features, and most admins do not post a thread every couple months for which a normal member would get in trouble for spamming and advertising. In other words, I still believe I have some valid posts.
While my posts have not exactly been civil, I have not posted things like:
you're lucky you even have the love site at all.
You either like my site the way it is or GTFO!
Perhaps you'll understand when you grow up and have your own business where you have to provide a product or service that people desire.
(See above: A community and a business are not the same thing.
Also, while my clamoring for civility may have been slightly hypocritical, I distinctly remember you "clamoring" for me to leave the site.
Now, I will gladly tone my posts down. However, if you would prefer to continue falsely accusing me of ad hominem arguments, go ahead.