Most times I don't care if people are gay. Just as long as they don't show them being gay around me. (ex. You go to town with some ppl and a gay. The gay says, "hey that guy looks good" that isn't cool, but when he don't say stuff like that i don't care)
so basically you think its okay to be gay, they just cant show it.. that's the whole point of "comming out of the closet". how would you like to not be able to express your feelings?
o trust me, i'm gay. i started this topic b/c i needed advice, and it seems to have turned itself into a contraversy (i dont know how 2 spell it either) either way, its kind of pathetic how long ppl can go and debate someone's sexuality. if ya see two guys holding hands, it doesnt effect you. move on and get a life.
coaster992001 i think u are being obnoxious about this whole thing, if a gay guy asked me out i would say what someone else here said, i would tell them i dont swing that way and walk away or something, just ask him for christ sake and end this nonsense of a topic.
it seems abit of a tricky situation, i dont no what you could do. i wish there wasn't so many haters on this site. im bisexual so i understand the difficuities your going through. im backing you. xxxx.
Finding out if someone is gay or not by asking them out on a date is probably not such a good idea. As you can tell from some of the replies you've gotten here, there are a lot of people in this world who would love to knock you down for who you are. It would probably be better to find out if he's actually gay first before asking him out.
that's a good idea. now i just have to figure out how to do that lol. also, to whoever said it: how do you know your straight? this is one of those things that you just know. its like this: either you like cherry pie, or you dont like cherry pie. i for one, dont like cherry pie. i'd prefer blueberry.
and to whoever said it again: how am i being obnoxious? i asked a question, and got a whole lot of answers.
wws goliath100 hasnt even posted in this whole topic,lol. and coasterdude i said u were being obnoxius, this topic should just be locked its ridiculius(sp)
like when someone said sexy dance, that was bad enough then u added sexy man dancing or something, and the whole thing about the math teacher or brad pitt or something, i have nothing against gays but this just needs to stop, wws, someone lock this =/
okay, howcome you didnt complain when someone made a topic about "who's the hottest" or something like that? i've made very few comments about that kind of thing. not to mention, ther're not even in this topic. you cant look at topics 6 or 7 pages long with people filling it with who the hottest female celebrity is and then go yell at the only person who poasts about guys. that in itself is obnoxious. either live with what everyone has to say in a topic or dont poast it at all.
also, i dont think i ever said anything about brad pitt...? and i dont remember what i said abt a math teacher, but i do remember i was joking about it or that it was in a joke poast or something.. i dunno. either way, if your going to yell at me about whatever, can you provide links?
I think this whole discussion is stupid and is about to be stopped. If WWS or someone else disagrees they can unlock this topic but I don't think that will happen.
I am going to leave this topic locked, not because I don't like having topics like this. Rather, the members here are not educated enough to reply humanely to it or are just plain ignorant. I've re-read it and figure it's in the best interest of the community to lock it. Gays, lesbians, hetero's, bysexuals and any sex you want to identify yourself with is welcomed to this website. You are free to discuss it, but measures have to be taken to prevent these people's sex choice from being abused by the ignorant or the unsecure people.
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