Yeah the card isnt a good idea. No offence. If you dont want to do it to her face, why not by phone, and i mean phone, not text. That way you are actually talking to her so it takes a bit of balls, BUT you wont have to stand in front of her face and let her see your expression if she says no. But its more than likely she wont say no, well thats if your sure she likes you at least a little bit. But anyway the best way to do it is face to face, but if you cant handle it, PHONE! Or ask a mate, to ask one of her mates if she likes you first, just to be sure. Thats what i do. [:)]